Mama is worried lately that perhaps June is receiving special treatment. As the first child, it was all rules, all the time with me. But June has the perfect set of circumstances- first, she's a girl and super adorable; second, she's the second child and mama and papa have mostly given up; third, the new baby is almost here and mama is just too tired to care anymore. That's how June gets away with stuff like this:
One morning when I was at Vacation Bible School, June wore her Dora nightgown all morning and sorted beads into little bowls. She accessorized the outfit with two mismatched rainboots. She had been wearing her old rainboots, but they are now painfully small, so mama had to dig out her new boots for this fall.
Here's an old video we forgot to post from when we were home in Marion. June is getting very good at sound effects and even came in and fired a squirt gun at mama complete with Star Wars blaster sound effects. Where does she learn this stuff? I still don't even understand that guns shoot anything but water.
This movie is only 3 seconds long, but has a very brief payoff at the end. And this was probably June's only smile all week. It was a rough one in the Turner house. June was in a terrible mood. She didn't want to get out of bed. She didn't want to wear what anyone picked out. She didn't want to eat what we gave her. And all of that was sandwiched between major whining and temper tantrums. Not our normal Gugger.
Though she can't really communicate to tell us how she's feeling, mama and papa think two things are at work. First, June likes routine. We had a nice schedule going all year. They dropped me off at school, headed to the gym (or just "Donna" as June calls everything gym related, in honor of the wonderful woman who runs the day care). Then they came home and Junie got to watch a little Dora while mama took a shower. It was fun and predictable. But this summer, there is no schedule, so June is all out of sorts.
Second, and we could be wrong, but we think June knows something is going on. Although we don't think she understands that a new baby is coming, she senses things are rapidly changing and she is NOT okay with that. In an effort to curb her anxiety, mama and papa have been trying to give June more special one-on-one time. This seems to be working and she's been much more pleasant in the last few days.
1 comment:
Man, Henry, that Juner sure is spoiled. If you would have liked anything that shiny, I totally would have gotten you some shiny shirts from India. (Ok, and I'm not-so-secretly happy that she loves it that much. I may have found my aunt role!)
Hope this week has some more smiles. Be good for your mama!
xoxo,
Aunt Queen/Miss Elizabeth
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